Transitioning from male to female can be an intimidating and expensive process. I’m constantly on the hunt for new products and resources that make your life (and my own) easier. If you choose to buy any of the products below, I earn a small commission to support the site. But I didn’t receive any money from the products below for placement.

Please let me know in the comments if there are topics you’d like to see added to the list!

Things to Buy

Early Stage Bras and Compression Undershirts

Bali Women’s Comfort Revolution Easylite Seamless Wireless Bra
Underworks Microfiber Compression Shirt
Vislivin Shelf Bra Tank


MAC Pro Longwear Nourishing Waterproof Foundation
bareMinerals Complexion Rescue Tinted Hydrating Gel Cream
NYX Eyebrow Gel

Hair Removal

Tria Laser Hair Remover
Braun Silk-épil Hair Removal for Women
Nylea Tweezers Set


12” Lace Front Hombre Wig
22” Lace Front Wig


Unclockable Tucking Tape
Basic Thong Gaff
Bikini Gaff

Body Measurements

Renpho Body Fat Scale
Accu-measure Fitness Calipers

Waist Trainers

The best waist trainer to buy
Workout Waist Trainer

Things to Learn

Changing your voice

Applying Makeup

Doing Your Hair


Things to Do

7 replies on “Resources”

Could we get basic clothing and accessorizing tips? Like how to figure out sizes, don’t wear heels if you’re gonna walk on tile all day, potential fashion social hazards like never dye your hair color the same as a friend who just did.

Abbey, thank you for providing this content! I am a new at this (48 years old and finally tired of fighting who I am) and I need all the guidance/advice I can get!

Hi Abby: I’m 71 yo MtF and restarting my transitioning, with a semi-useable right lower leg foot ( due to an accident and arthritis ) a permanent condition. With 1 heel and or 4 wheels, I will do this. I do have 2-4 people Dr. included as my support group, I need more advice about ;make up, wigs etc. from trans women – wheelchair users and wish to help others as I go along . please contact me. Thank you Josie

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